Something for Robert Pattinson to Think About

I came across a comment on the GossipCop website from someone that goes by the user name, John F.  Rob may want to consider these words (especially the last half of his comment), since John himself has experienced the same thing he did (minus the fame aspect).  All credit goes to him.

The comment can be found here: www(.)gossipcop(.)com/kristen-stewart-pregnant-rupert-sanders-affair-baby-father-robert-pattinson/

"It’s sad to read all the hateful comments being written and posted about a young woman we don’t personally know. First of all I must say I’m not a horny teenager or lonely mother. I am a 52 year old married father of six. And I hardly ever like to comment on these gossip columns, however, this time I feel I should. I think that we can all agree that no one in here knows them on a personal level therefore we don’t know what’s been going on with them in their private lives. The only thing I know about Ms. Stewart is that she’s a 22 year old girl who for the latter part of her life has had her every move followed and scrutinized. It’s a shame but to a certain degree it can be expected when you are in show business. Ms. Stewart: You made a terrible indiscretion and you are paying terribly for it. I don’t know what drove you to that or what exactly went on, but I believe that it’s your obligation to be truthful to Mr. Pattinson and to yourself. If you truly want Mr. Pattinson back you must do everything within your power to earn his trust back and the trust of all the persons you have wounded with your indiscretion. Mr. Pattinson: I can tell you that I know what it feels like to be in your situation (minus the the fame, etc) my girlfriend, cheated on me too. When I found out about it, it crushed me. Never in a million years did I ever thought she would do that to me. We didn’t speak for almost two weeks mainly because I wasn’t ready to face her and find out what went wrong between us. After my anger, bitterness, shock, and sadness subsided and much to the dismay of my friends and family, we sat down and had a long emotional talk. I realized for the first time what true communication was. We were able to be truly be honest with one another as a result, I decided that our relationship was worth fighting for. I forgave her. I did not want to throw away 4 years of our relationship and the wonderful memories we had out the window and in some strange sense allow the man that came between us the satisfaction of knowing that he had defeated us. I’m not saying that you should forgive Ms. Stewart, all I am saying is that you really need to talk to her, and get the true facts from her. I doubt that with all this publicity and her position she will withhold vital information from you. The most important thing is that you need to talk this out with her; no one else can interfere. You must ask yourself this question: Can you walk away from this relationship? Will you ever be able to see her have a life with someone else and be fine with it? and most importantly are you ever going to wonder what might have been. People say time heals all wounds, I say that’s not exactly correct. Time covers the wounds, it doesn’t heal them. People always regret unfinished business. I know that in my circumstance I was able to forgive her, but it took me awhile before I could trust her again. Ironically enough I think her indiscretion made us a stronger couple, without a doubt it brought us together. I can not imagine what my life would have been like if I had done what my friends and family advised me to do and just leave her. I would not have the six wonderful children we brought into this world together. Final thought, I do not condone cheating or adultery, however I do advocate for forgiveness and I am true believer of second chances…we are all humans and are bound to make them, but not repeat them."

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I know that chances are extremely slim, but I hope that this message reaches Rob.  Or at least, a message that has similar context.  Because despite the fact his and Kristen's relationship has been followed and dissected by the world, with intrusions by the paparazzi and media, it's their relationship, and no one else's.  I hope they remember that, and that they're not taking notice of all the rumors surrounding them at this time.

Ignore the outside world for right now, you two.  Focus on yourselves and your relationship.  Don't let anyone or anything interfere with your love for each other and the choices you make.